talking about your ex, you are introducing competition which is not really needed at that time. It makes her feel threatened. She has this feeling that you still cared for this ex, and in due time you’ll going back to her (which is most times the case), so she will want to save herself for some other person who will respect her as a woman, treat her like a queen, make her an idol, your fetish, make her believe that your world revolved around her. So if you are being refused sex, see if you are in the habit of talking about an ex, an ex that left you, an ex that treated you as you where some cheap piece of furniture; then forget about this ex, and think and talk more of how both of you can improve on what you already have, discuss your future plans, get to know more of each other, instead of having some idle ex talk. Do this and she won’t have any reason to refuse of what you so desire. Try me, it works.
• It looks like I’m older than Him: Oh my! This is another reason why she might be refusing you sex, though most ladies can marry men younger than them, but majority of ladies prefer men older than them, in some cases old enough to be their fathers. This is so because a lady believes that she needs some level of protection which a guy far older that her can do, but with the younger guy, she feels less protected, especially if the guy in question looks like one of his junior bothers, she probably baby sit a couple of years back. Many ladies will want to argue this out with me, for example in the recent past, pop star and song diva Madonna has dated Guy and now Jesus, guys who are younger than her. We also have the case of Cameron Diaz and her ex squeeze Justin Timber lake, and of Usher and his ex, but all this relationships packed up as