most are living today, there are so many groups of people living in blocks of communities with mental controls and limitations that the natural flow of establishing a foundation of ‘getting on’ with each other is failing and the younger generation being squeezed further into isolation by those in authority who are looping about by their own level of control which is increasing as a need for power has taken control because the basic fundamental attitude to accept people as people, not as one would like everyone else to be.
Many girls find hugging each other a natural social part of their greeting. Many males wonder why and often many girls are snidely referred in suggestive ways, that they must be Lesbians when in fact they are not and the males uneducated, move on not realizing the importance for that physical body ritual.
A number of years ago now, there were two test conducted at a University as I believe, a part of a Thesis for a Psychology Degree. The first test was to interview women of a particular level of expertise for a bogus job. The office was fitted out with video cameras to document the outcome. Part of the Interviewees prop was a bassinet with a very young baby dressed in blue. The interviews began and those women who came is search of work, took scant notice of the interviewees baby. The comments of how is he and what is his name, mostly along that line and it was on with answering the questions and learning about the job to be. Of all the women who entered on that first day, only two actually picked up the baby and made a fuss of it to the mother.
New day the test was repeated with different women applying for the interview, the difference though was that the baby this time, was dress in pink.