Question by Dj Deck: Girlfriend sacred of sex?
Me and my girlfriend are both ready for sex but she is sacred of breaking her hymen cos she heard it hurts and bleeds a little is there anything i can do
I ment scared not sacred lol
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Answer by snoboardergrl88
sacred or scared… theres a difference
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nope, u cant really do anything
u can talk her out
cuz ive asked my girlfriends and many other girls how it feels like
and ALL of them told me that the first time it hurt, but not a “pleasurable hurt,” like “hurt hurt”
so i guess its true that it hurts the first time
tell her..
if she’s ever used a tampon then it’s most likely already broken. also, it can be broken through sports or just daily activities. but no matter what.. if she’s not lubricated enough it will hurt. you need to make sure there’s foreplay before the sex
You aren’t paying attention. If she’s scared, she’s not ready. So wait until you are both ready.
it will hurt, i’m not even going to lie. Just be there for her. Let her know that whenever she is ready, you will be too. If or when it happens. be really gentle and slow. Lubricant would also be good.
tell her it only bleeds sometimes. mine never bled. it depends on how thick it is. if she has worn a tampon, chances are its already broken. so mine didnt bleed and never hurt. but the thing that will hurt the most is acctually having sex. her vagina is not used to having something of that size in it.
It will hurt and bleed a little no matter what you do.
Put a towel down underneath her so there won’t be any blood on the bed because there will be a puddle afterwords.
I don’t know if you’re a virgin, but you can make it easier for her if you take things slow (give her lots of foreplay) and once you’re in keep at it (but gently). After a minute or so, it will stop hurting for her. The bleeding won’t be noticed by her until after.
FACT: Tampons do NOT break the hymen. Don’t believe those others who said it does. They are wrong. Tampons are much smaller than a penis. I started using tampons as a virgin and my hymen was the same when I had sex for the first time.
first time hurts and is not fun for the girl no matter what you do…please use protection and really make sure this is what the two of you truely want
I wonder if your typo was a sign. Sex is sacred and made to be between a husband and a wife. Too many people use it as just a thing casually on a date. There are a lot of emotions tied up in sex and you should make sure you are with the right person before taking that step. But to answer your question…Everyone is different. When my mom lost her virginity she said that it hurt for 2-3 days and she had a hard time walking. It does bleed some but the pain wasn’t bad for me. If your girlfriend wants to wait and you really love her then you will wait.
And by the way…tampons do not break a hymen. That is a myth from our grandmothers!
What you can do – for her – is wait until she’s ready.
Yes, having sex with my gf makes her sacred to me, too.
Yoni worship is way overdue for a comeback, so I’m leading the parade.
It’s not going to be completely painless. If this is someone you are completely comfortable with, you should have no problem talking to him about the following. I suggest you use a lubricant and I wouldn’t get crazy with your first time (scented, flavored, warming, tingling, etc.). Also, YOU need to ease into it. Slow initial penetration and you not going after her like a rabbit will help a ton. It also helps if you warm her up properly…relaxe her..use your fingers first it won’t come as a complete shock when the sex starts. Just relax and take it slow; after all it is your first time and you have the rest of your life to be adventurous. 🙂