although it seemed an innocuous enough invitation to Charles, this particular Elle McPherson could see it becoming a habit. Forgive her; she’s only met Charles once.
What girl wants to go steady with a perfect stranger? Come to think of it most women would; but that is before she has met him, not afterwards.)
Every woman is a rebel and usually in wild revolt against herself. (Oscar Wilde, A Woman of No Importance, 1893.)
“But”, said Charles, “How do I get a second date with her?” I explained the basic differences between men and women. Men see – women feel. To men it’s a visual thing; it’s what he sees. Whereas with women it’s how you make her feel. She doesn’t leave the beautician or the hairdresser’s saying, “I look great”, but, “I feel great”. It is how a man makes her feel that is important. Some of the world’s most beautiful women loved ugly men.
Someone cited Sofia Loren and Carlo Ponti as the perfect example – only to be told by a fellow that it was his money that attracted her. I argued that Sohpia Loren probably had more than Carlo Ponti.
No matter how handsome a man, if he treats a woman badly – or even indifferently – she will soon tire of him. I went on to explain that there were many ways to attract a special woman but the easiest was to take an interest in her hobbies and interests.
Most women are keen to learn something new. If you can discover something you can teach her, you may even skip a few rungs up the ladder of success. If she wants to go roller-blading and you are quite adept; show her how. She will not only admire your prowess but will get such a thrill out of mastering it. Everyone loves to learn something new and of course they are appreciative of the