Question by konFuzd: how do can i get libido back?
Im in my… well lets say im not 20 i have 5 kidos and my sexual drive has gone down way down. Need help can someone recommend some magical pill.
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Answer by redhead27
have you tried viagra, my friend?
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Get a vibrator and use it everyday for two weeks whether you feel like it or not. Cut back to whatever you prefer after that.
Long-term, get yourself into better shape, over all healthier and get more rest. (Good luck!)
hormone replacement
menopause is not nice for either peeps
Exercise daily, eat healthy food, go to bed before midnight and try to get at least 7 hours of sleep each night: Take care of yourself. Look good and feel good which will, in turn, make you feel confident and sexy. Being run-down, stressed, out of shape, and tired will decrease your sex drive.
This is what you can do – this is what my wife did. She taught me how to slowly warm her up so that even though she does not start out in the mood at all she allows me to “get her in the mood”.
I have her lie down and I give her a nice long slow gentle massage. It starts out non-sexual and when she is totally relaxed she says, I feel nice and calm – which means that now I can proceed to step 2 – which is a massage of her lower back, butt, inner thighs – but I don’t yet touch her “directly” if you get my drift. Eventually this makes her feel turned on – because she has taught me how to touch her in that way that makes her turned on. Finally she says “kiss me” and then I kiss her and slowly start foreplay. This requires at least 1 hour – but you know what – my wife is happy to put aside 60-90 minutes for me twice a week because she knows that I am not willing to go through life sexually starved. In return for those two nights of joy I pretty much am agreeable to whatever else she wants done during the week.
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Plus do everything redheaded mom says – she is right that helps too. My wife is really fit so she is not at all insecure about her body and believes me when I tell her how turned on I am by her. Lets face it, knowing someone is really into you at a raw physical level is a nice warm feeling and she has that.
are you a male? sleep and lay of the booze.
are you a female? NOTHING listed by anyone else here works.
there is no magical pill for women, and viagra is not a libido increaser for anyone.
daily doses of testosterone cream is the only thing that does the trick.
ask your physician
get a new partner and your libido will be back double strength
(of course, I jest…)
One common problem that happens is this. I have been there and done that. You have to figure out what it is first that is destroying your sex drive. If your on medication like birth control or anti-depressants that is something to think about and do research on. Other then that it could just be stress, maybe the kids, really anything that makes your life stressful can do this and lower the libido.
One thing I tried that seemed to work while I was doing it was exercising. I just felt sexier doing it which kind of boosted my libido. However it wasn’t the best solution for me. My friend told me about these herbal enhancers that are made from natural herbs and don’t cause any side effects besides having wild sex. She said it’s the female version of viagra. I had to find out.
I would always have a weak orgasm too (if I had one at all), which after trying this sex enhancer, it boosted them tremendously. I don’t get multiple orgasms but I’ve had plenty since being on these herbs. It’s seriously like the best vibrator ride you’ve ever experienced. These things make me horny all the time, some days I don’t even take them because the urge is just too strong.
Don’t try out single herbs because they don’t do it like the blend of herbs these scientists and researchers pick out. I’ve tried a couple of them by itself and they did crap. The stuff that I’m on is called Hersolution, at the time I saved money on it at herenhancement.com . Make sure you get the 3 month supply that way you fall under the guarantee/return policy if the herbs don’t work for you, you can return them with no questions ask. I bet they will work though and you won’t have any problems. Also if your on medication of any sort, check out the gel because if your like me, you wouldn’t want to swallow any thing that might react with the medications your already on.
Well have a good day and hopefully you solved your problem.