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Inform her too that Tantric sex is not about ‘kinky sex acts’. Tell her that it involves a lot of meditation, use of scented candles and oils, massage, relaxing breathing techniques, and a lot of emotional, mental and physical indulgence.
Step 3: Tell her it’s not even THAT big a mystery.
Let her know that rock star Sting and his wife engages in Tantric sex all the time. The actor Woody Harrelson does so too. Mentioning these famous names doesn’t mean that she should get into Tantric lovemaking because it’s ‘in’, but because it’s not a big mystery anymore as far as other couples are concerned.
Tell her too that Tantra sex touches on yoga. In fact, yoga IS a form of Tantric sex because it focuses on aligning the body with the rest of the universe. If she knows about the principles of yoga, then tell her getting into Tantric sex is not that big a leap anymore!
Step 4: Reassure her that your interest in Tantric sex is NOT because there’s something ‘wrong’ in your relationship now.
A lot of people – men and women alike – don’t want to engage in Tantric sex because of the ‘why fix something that’s not broken’ mentality. If you talk to them about getting into sacred sexuality, they think you mean there’s something ‘wrong’ with what you both have currently.
Another reason is that they feel that you’re ‘moving on’ and they’re afraid they can’t move on or keep up with you. The result? The relationship is being harmed rather than being helped. Knowing these fears will help you prepare a good argument.
Reassure them that you like or love what you have NOW but consider the joys if it could be better! You guys can always stop at anytime but