the way to effectively help yourself.
Now, to the big question. Is a spell right for you? The first thing to consider are the three points above. Really contemplate them as they relate to a reconciliation spell.
The first point is you need to make an effort. Are you really willing to do this? In the case of a reconciliation it might mean making sacrifices in your lifestyle, compromising on important points, or making other major changes to your behavior or manner of living. You also need to be persistant, steadfast, and devoted. Really think this over: so many people, in the heat of emotion, swear “Yes, I will do anything to win him back!” yet, when faced with the actuality of it, can’t pull through. They become aggravated that the other person isn’t treating them well enough, or complain they simply can’t do this-or-that because of some reason. In consequence, things either don’t progress at all or else find a quick burst of improvement that fades out quickly once the person decides they don’t want to work anymore. If you want to spend a lifetime with this person, you can look forward to a lifetime of work. It’s not a one-time deal; unless you permanently correct whatever drove them from you to start, they won’t permanently stay.
The next point was to have realistic expectations. I think this actually is the cause of some of the failures relating to the first point: people expect too much from the spell, believing it’ll solve everything overnight, or that it will turn the target into some idealized version of his or herself. You can’t turn a sow’s ear into a silk purse; and you can’t turn the target into someone they are not (and really, why would you want to?) If you are going to be disappointed when your sullen, melancholic