Question by loveALWAYS: I want to wait until marriage to have sex? But I want to know, how good does it feel?
I don’t mean to be gross or anything but I just want some insight on this. I’m gonna save it until I’m married to the one I love, and I doubt I’ll have another sexual partner other than who I end up marrying. Is it really a “magical” experience, even if you wait until you get married?
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Answer by Cham
hurts at first after that if you have a loving caring person who is not selfish it is INCREDIBLE!
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It’s incredible. Two people wanting nothing more than to please one another…..priceless. Please wait for the right person, you are doing the right thing. It will be that much more “magical” for you.
i guess if its w/someone you really love then yea but its painful the first few times lol
when youre with a that strong muscular man you love in bed, it will feel magical, to feel those strong arms around you all cozy in bed. sharing the night together for the first time together. thats how it will feel.
its only a magical experience if its with someone you truly care about. if yo udont care about them it still feels very good, much more pleasing than masturbation, but not nearly as good as it will if you make a true connection with the one your sleeping with…
personally i kind of think you should have sex before marriage, but thats mainly just to find out how compatible you are sex-wise.
again, probly not much help but i hope it was
People with this mentality of that of yours are very rare nowadays, and their number is reducing day by day.
To keep your virginity until marriage is really appreciable and be adoptable by others too. Then the face of the world will be something else. You are doing a good job and keep it up.
guess you have to wait…but its painful for beginning women.
No, it’s not magical. It’s real, baby, it’s real! Before, during, or after marriage, it’s all good. Just like anything, it takes practice. It’s unusual for a person’s very first sexual experience to be great, at least compared to what you’ll have after some experience, but still.
It’s the way we keep our species alive; that’s why God made it irresistible.
I am not married, and I do not regret in any way not waiting until marriage. I don’t think it’s going to make my wedding night any less special. I’m not knocking your decision – it’s your life. But from my point of view, I actually think it’s important to have sex before marriage. Sex is an area in which you both need to be compatible in, because it really does matter. The top three reasons for divorce are money, kids, and sex. So compatibility here really is key.
Sex with my boyfriend is amazing. The REAL amazing, not the overused kind. Emotionally, I feel very connected to him and so caught up in the moment. Literally everything else disappears and the only thing that matters is just me and him and the way we feel about each other. It’s so loving.
Physically… there really isn’t any other sensation that I can compare it to. It is like nothing else. And it isn’t just something that you feel between your legs… you feel it throughout your entire body.
When it is with the right person and for the right reason sex is incredible. I mean, C’mon… why do you think it starts wars, ruins marriages, and changes lives? When you are with someone that you trust, that allows you to let go, and is in tune with your wants and desires… it does not get better than that. As far as marriage goes, my first time was not magical really, we were both virgins and were nervous as hell… then like our third night in Maui something clicked and it has gotten better ever since… what could be more fun that getting better at sex as a couple… yum yum.
Meh I think it is over rated and do not want to build my relationship around sex which may sound weird coming from a guy. I enjoy the bond I feel with my fiance after experiencing it though.
It’s all fine and dandy at first. Then you start to realize that you can control him with ur va jj. Then he gets made and cheats on you. bla bla bla bla bla. Life’s a bit*h.
GoOd for you. Because you are waiting that makes it more special and magical experience. It is a wonderful feeling to have that special someone to hold you and make you feel safe.
wait..good decision.dunno how it is..cos im myself a virgin.
You have put your finger on the problem !
Don’t waite you will regret it.
Well it actually depends on your moral values. I personally wished I had waited until later, not necassarily with the first man I married because he was a jack@$$. Physically it can be great, mentally it can tear you apart.
hurts like hell the first time but after you get married, sex isnt very important so I really dont remember how it feels…its been so long
At first, it hurts a little, but it doesn’t take long to get over that. If the guy is good and slow that is. If he tries to hurry up, then yes it can hurt the whole time. Trust me, when you actually hmmhmm. it’s awesome. Everything is warm and fuzzy you could say and you forget anything and everything for just that split moment or moments. I would say, waite. the longer you wait the better it will be.
It probably won’t feel good at first and it may not for a while. Don’t be disappointed though, because it will get better and better,( until you have a baby and are too tired to enjoy anything but sleep).
Whether sex is wonderful and something you look forward to when you are married or something you dread and want to avoid depends on a lot of things.
Get a book that teaches you how to know your own body and about sex. When you get married, I will be honest with you, the first time will be uncomfortable, but you have to learn to put aside your embarrassment and tell your husband what you enjoy having him do that feels good to you and what you don’t like and turns you off. Your husband can’t read your mind, you have to tell him. What one woman likes, another woman might hate.
Next your husband has to be patient and willing to work with you and try different things to satisfy you. You have to also be patient and not expect fireworks the second time you have sex with him.
Having a good marriage and treating each other with love and respect will only make sex even better for both of you.
great
It’s overrated, a few minutes of joy and then you got to put up with the old lady the rest of the day !
its so good feeling, but you can wait till you have it with the one you love.