wants to be and for no other reason. IF that matters to you, THEN it matters. There is no tie that binds like unbreakable or unmeltable steel handcuffs. We are all liberty endowed human beings. FREE Agents, no less. Relationship, partnership or marriage in no way infringes upon that sacred individual vow. It’s all a matter of realizing, verbalizing, accepting and releasing your underlying fear. (Admit in your heart; confess with your mouth deal) You want some sort of promise or guarantee. There are none. Promises are made to be broken and guarantees are the sole property of death, alone.
Face the unflattering truth about yourself and all others; we desire things to go in our favor. We want benefit and pleasure with very little pain and certainly no disappointment. We want somebody to pledge to ‘be there forever and ever’ without recoil or changing his/her mind. No such luck. “Aint gonna happen,” said the captain when the bruised and tired ship mates asked if they could all share equally in the distribution of gold coins discovered in the huge treasure chest they had all long sought after.
The liberating truth is: your daily walk and relationships are going to be filled with obstacles, restraints, disappointments, and general ‘run of the mill’ dead end enterprises. Some of your romantic involvements are going to break your heart, destroy your mind, ruin your self-confidence and rip open your guts merely to smear them all along the highway of your personal life for everyone who is important to see and comment. So what? You are equal to and can surpass any self-imposed barrier you create and meet along the way. It’s part of your grand deceptively illusive self-designed path to self-discovery and self-mastery. That’s