I’m having a sexual dry spell. What should I do?

Take your time, the right man will come along. Go to communit outings, CAR SHOWS, etc; you will meet guys. Until then find some other alternatives. If you go online let me know. 😀

Think about all the things your ex never wanted you to do (because he was afraid you might meet some guy there) than go do them. Join a bowling club or guys and girls sports team if you are into athletics. Hang out at your local rec club or swimming pool for a few hours a week. Browse your favorite supermarket (I’m not kidding!). You’d be surprised how many guys give you the eye in the produce section. Parks and beaches are good places to make contact. Grab a friend and go get some (sun that is, lol). Put your mind to work. You know your routine. Go with it. You don’t have to sleep with him on the first date. The choice is yours to make. But if you do, don’t beat yourself up in the morning. We’re talking adults here who can make an informed decision as to what they need and how to go about getting it. Pack a condom and get out there in the world. For sure you won’t meet anyone sitting at home playing with toys, and how long will you be satisfied with “entertaining yourself?”