outside stimulates, creates, maintains, and fulfills the sexual appetite. Not true. Sexual eroticism goes much deeper than 36-24-36 or 42 inch biceps. Spontaneity, flexibility, humor and receptivity add and reflect your true level of desirability. If these sexually vibrating and stimulating attributes are not present, you are a dud no matter what you look like. Don’t be so vain. Vanity is a time consuming monster who robs your true joy! Incidentally, “all is vanity”, according to one writer, so really vanity does nothing more than age a person. Don’t look now, but you are aging faster than the time it takes to say ‘mofo’. Of course, the aging body isn’t the only problem supposedly to contend with. {Gotta be more to the ‘tingle’ than the ‘wingle’} One needs a voluptuous sense of humor, voracious appetite, mildly functioning brain and energetic creative mind to help support a healthy viable sexual attitude which, in turn, fosters a positive sizzling active sex life.
First of all, you can not have a hidden agenda without it interfering with your performance. Sure, you can get lucky sometimes with your overall ‘hit and misses’ but for a richly fulfilling mind exploding ‘losing all consciousness’ kind of sexual thrill, you must be present and ready to receive. You may be saying, “Of course, I’d be present and ready.” Not necessarily.” IF you’re carrying a whole bunch of head garbage, {Whether it be ‘leftover emotions’ from other relationships or current ‘unresolved emotional issues’, worries and concerns of the day, comparison issues, body-image problems or exaggerations, concentrating on ‘what will come’ from the sexual encounter instead of simply enjoying the experience, guilt because you think