Question by Andy: I need serious sex advice?
Oboy so my girlfriend has never ever orgasm, she came close but no cigar. PS im the only one shes had sex with. So Ive try almost everything i can think of… massages, aggression, name calling, I went having sex for one hour and half and nothing ive did the whole bit and no orgasm. and now shes telling me she wants some other dude who she gets this vibe that hes gonna tear her apart and it kills me. hes also trying to make a move on her which is even better please kill me. Me my girlfriend have been together for about 10 months. I’m sick of not pleasing her im sick of this crap what do i do man?
she loves me and she doesn’t want to give me up
but at the same time she wants to have magical sex that would blows her mind. How can I do that?
I’m confused and hurt
help?
PS She doesn’t like oral
Best answer:
Answer by lovely
Try toys or oral.
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Well you found out the hard way that aggression and name calling don’t do it. Do a bit of online research, look for the G-spot. It’s on the front wall about 3 inches in, and she needs to be relaxed for you to do it. Could take another 6 months to get that bit right…
And if you live so far away why aren’t you using webcams?
And btw, there is more than one type of orgasm for the female, like about 4 diferent types at least
Some women just cannot have orgasms. All I can say is Gspot-read up on it – it is all true
I’d say she doesn’t sound like sex with you is the first.Mind blowing sex isn’t going to happen with all the pressure this gal brings.
Having sex and making love with a partner there is a real connection with is so much different.Your at the doing the deed.
Place a higher value on one of you and make a change.
Don’t be hurt let it be a lesson learned.
When your getting so many mixed messages who wouldn’t be confused. Stop the drama and figure there is more to a relationship than Magical sex .The loving and careing are really the magical part.
First off, I’d leave her in a heart beat. She’s talking about wanting another guy? C’mon man, that’s cold and you know it. But I know how love is, love is weakness. If you really wanna be with her, switch it up. Try every position, start with oral lead to intercourse. Switch positions mid sex, and most importantly, if you want her to have an orgasm easy, work the clit. I had the same problem, I couldn’t get her to, we even talked about it and she taught me, hahaha. Hey man, just ask her, what does she like, you gotta know! If you can’t communicate, something ain’t right. I had to explain to my girlfriend how to work certain things so she did the same.
Make sex exciting and fun, start with kissing, dry humping, hands to oral to intercourse. Flip her around, kiss her neck, kiss her body. Do all kinds of things! But yeah, the easiest way to make a girl cum, in my opinion at least, is to lightly rub the clit.
EDIT*didn’t see that she doesn’t like oral*
I understand your frustration. It’s hard to know your girlfriend is with another guy. Even a hell of a lot worse to know she is going to screw him. But you can’t hold her in chains man, you gotta let her be free to taste the fruit of the land. If your penis is normal size, and you had it in the right place for as long as you say and she didn’t cum, then chances are she won’t with another guy either. On the other hand if it is magical sex with another guy,you have a major problem to check out.Here is wishing you the best, and Good Luck eh!
sounds like you need a new girlfriend..
but okay, if you really want to stick to this one…try fingering her and rubbing her clit, that usually feels really good
she sounds dumb. have her show u how she does it on her own.