Question by New to fashion: What kind of strokes/thrusts should one aim for during sexual intercourse?I want to be a better lover.?
I realise that satisfying a woman takes much more than just a sexual intercourse.I want to improve all the ways i need to to satisfy my lovely girlfriend. but just cant seem to find out what it means to the saying its not the size of the wand but the magic in it.Communication,experimentation and not being selfish are different things.The last time we had sex she orgasimed for the first time during intercourse .I was trying to use clean,smoth and consistent strokes/thrusts.Is this what should be the aim.i mean many men just jam it in there and dont concentrate on how its entering in and out.There does not seem to be much inforamtion that makes this easier for men and thay just have ti use trial and error.I dont want to become to clinical about this but just to have some idea if smothness is what i should aim for and than build my confidence and expeimentation from a basic stance that gives more information than its how you use it and just jam it in there till i work it out
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Answer by CatCat
i wasn’t going to answer this question at first lol. but you actually do sound like you want help.
variety is good. shallow and fast/slow and deep
done now
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It sounds like you are doing the right things and have the right idea.
If you want to make her happy you have to find out what she wants. Every woman has a different preference and this can change depending on her mood as well. For instance, sometimes she may want fast, hard strokes, and other times she may want you to be more gentle.
Basically you just don’t want to treat her body like your hand. No jackrabbit sex.
LET HER GUIDE YOU.
Most girls want you to fondle them on their breasts, talk dirty to them, and eat their pussy.
Just ask her, she knows what she wants.
mmm seems like u r a nice guy..
we are not her.. ASK HER!
grinding, fast n slow, and tip of the penis a few stokes and then full length. hip movement is the key x
sweetie she is a lucky woman. you are right a lot of men dont worry much about the partner in the heat of the moment. most women do not orgasm during intercourse the clitorus must be aroused for orgasm to happen. the speed and strength of the thrust depends on the woman. Different storkes for different folks you know. if you have the right angle you can be rubbing the clitorus during intercourse but most men dont. When you make loe to your girlfriend pay attention to what she responds to. talk to her. ask her if she wants you to do something harder softer or just a little different. and tell her what she does that makes you feel good. Making love is a 2 way street.
I agree with the others but one important thing, YOU have to have chemistry between you and her. If you have that, nature just kind of takes over. It is a learning process, the more you have sex, the better you get. Just find out what works for her and you. 🙂 Good luck
Here’s a sex quiz for men that provides explanations for each answer. It provides a lot of good information. Some may be common sense for some, but most men don’t practice it consistently. Also, the best foreplay starts before you get in the bedroom. This sets the woman up for a satisfying experience. Put all of these items into practice and you’ll be a better lover than 99% of the men in the world.