moving center (second chakra) is activated. Otherwise, attachment and other dysfunctions can occur. It is also important to realize that the higher thinking center (third eye) is what opens the heart. So the key to Soul Sex and Sacred Relationship is working through the charkas from 1 (lower moving center), 3 (lower feeling center), 5 (lower thinking center), 6 (higher thinking center), 4 (higher feeling center), 2 (higher moving center), to 7 (connection to oneness and the divine). This assures us of proper energy transfer between the charkas (Lozowick, 1996). Obviously, this is not how we normally practice our growth in western culture. If we did, we would access more happiness, Love, and joy!
So you want Love and happiness in your relationship? The shadow says Sacred Relationship and Soul Sex are challenging to say the least, but well worth it if you can commit to transcendence with yourself and your mate. It can get dark at times and can get challenging healing the wounds, especially the sexual ones. Our religious culture and the church has distorted what sex is and deleted the truth in many instances. “In actuality, there is no need to refrain from the sex act in order to practice this form of alchemy. Indeed as Magdalen discusses in the Manuscript, there are ways that the sex act can greatly empower the ascent of sekhem, or ‘that which makes things erect,’ up the spine. For various historical reasons, too complex to go into here, the church separated sex from spirit, but in the ancient Egyptian understanding, they were intimately connected” (Kenyon and Sion, 2002). Thank God! We need to heal the separation. I’m all for this connection. I have experienced glimpses of Sacred Relationship and Soul Sex and know their power