Question by Confucious Say…: “She cast some strange…evil…sexual spell on my husband?
Oh?
Is that the reason its not the husband’s fault when he cheats on you?
Is that the reasoning YOU use when your “otherwise” good husband cheats on you?
Do you rationalize what he did by blaming the “other woman”–in essence, do you create a delusion for him to hide behind OR give him an OPPORTUNITY to tell you a better LIE than the one he got caught in?
Is this what women REALLY want when they get “dumped” and they claim they need “closure” when they really just want him to come up with a better lie–that will allow her to go “back to sleep”, and essentially ignore reality–AGAIN?
Best answer:
Answer by ?? LINDA ??
WOW!!!!!! Are you a scorned woman or what????
Know better? Leave your own answer in the comments!
Who knows?? It sounds like you need to meet you a nice man that doesn’t cheat and is committed to you.
I personally don’t blame the other women I think they are stupid if they know going it to it and don’t value them selves enough to be with a man that is not sleeping and providing for someone else but that is just how I feel. I think a man who cheats is just that a cheat and it could have been anyone there is nothing special about the person they cheat with they were simply stupid and willing.
I always blame the cheater. Unless the other party dragged or drugged the cheater, they are really a minor player in the whole mess.
It’s true. He’s a good man and she misled him down the wrong path.
Poor guy.
yep most husbands use that excuse, you were never there for me… or it does not matter how good you are to your husbands they will cheat and yes you can make it up in your head that she did a sexual spell on them but hug wash… lol he wanted to because he must have not been getting something he needed at home or he is just one of those men that like to cheat on there wife’s no matter how good she is!!!! me well i am or was a good wife who got cheated on all the time and i am sure he is still doing it!!! after a while it just becomes a part of your Life and you learn just not to care!! your there for your kids and your kids only!! you slip into this dark place and you just live there… i wish i would have gotten dumped but never happened… most men like to have there fun and stay with what they have and so do most wife’s…but it is not the woman fault it the mans for wanting the woman and the woman for believing the man!!!! lmao it takes too to have a affair but most woman will say she came on to him nope it that he did not love you enough to stay faithful or you were not giving him what he needed in the house!!!
It takes two to tango. Usually though, woman see the “OTHER WOMAN” as some kind of competition so it’s more rewarding to kick her ass around the block rather than the husbands. Fun times.
I can feel you girl, i’ve been there too
I think u need to find a new hubby
Wow, a new excuse I haven’t heard before. Wise up girl he is a loser and he’ll keep cheating, with her, with another and another and another. I can’t wait to hear his next excuse!
WTF?
BABIIE IM SORRY BUT WEN HE DOIN ALL DAT CHEATIN I UNDERSTAND DATS UR HUSBAND && ALL BUT I THINK U NEED 2 SIT DOWN AND TALK 2 HIM CUZ ALL DAT CHEATIN AINT CAUSED 4 NOW IF HE WASNT SUMTHIN U R HIS WIFE SO HE NEEDS 2 CUM 2 U NOT OTHA WOMEN THINK ABOUT DAT…