shame.
From God’s lips to man’s ears, female sexuality was contrived as the source of evil and consequently girls need to overcome many illusory bad feelings about sex. Guilt is the big baddie here and even young girls still condemn other sexily dressed teenagers with insults like ‘slut’ and ‘whore’. Not so long ago these tags were used for women who slept around, but what shows up the absurdity is that no one ever knew how many partners it took. Was it a total of two, ten or forty-three different lovers that turned one into a ‘ho’?
Fabled ideas about female sexuality mean that girls often fall-back upon the misguided notion that men know what to do. This is a disastrous falsehood as most boys resort to the school playground or the movies for their sex-ed. I’ve often wondered whether those ‘educated’ solely by cine-sex believe that the most common sexual position is the one with the woman cheerfully bouncing around on top. The only reason for this becoming the movie standard is because such an arrangement provides the best camera shot of her voluminous breasts.
As men are equally in the dark when it comes to sex-ed, most report that they would prefer their women to guide them rather than having to rely upon assumptions; or make the mistake of basing their judgement on what a previous lover liked.
Another major inhibiting factor for women is the obsession with physical perfection. Many agonize that their cellulite, wobbly bum or tell-tale love-handles will turn their partner off. What few females realise is that he’s so preoccupied with getting his end away that he’s unlikely to even notice these self-proclaimed imperfections.
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