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The “Time” Complaint. Not enough time, too much to do, blah, blah, blah. Look here, if you don’t have enough time to have fun at Christmas you’re just confused about what’s important. I’m pretty sure that when you’re lying on your deathbed one of the things you WON’T be saying is “Gee, I wish I’d spent more time at the office and less time enjoying Christmas.” There are 525,600 minutes in a year, only about 1500 of which get devoted to really enjoying Christmas. What, are you crazy? Surely you can fit your hectic life into the other 524,000 minutes.
Christmas is too big to be confined to any single ideology. It belongs to all people and to all of history. It has endured for thousands of years because it brings people together and celebrates hope and renewal. It’s an excellent time of year that gives us permission to transcend our normal petty natures. We get to be kind and gentle, and care about others and do little things that let those others know we care. We get to have fun, darn it! What, your life is so full of fun you can’t stand anymore?
Stop fretting over what you perceive is wrong with it. It’s just stupid to turn it into a conflict or some type of litmus test that only serves to divide us. Take what you like from it and leave the rest. And let others enjoy it in their own way. There’s something for everyone in Christmas. It truly is the most wonderful time of the year, it we just allow it to be. Have a holly jolly one!
Fred Tutwiler has worked with companies, individuals and athletic teams, including the 17 time NCAA Champion UNC Women’s Soccer Team and the WUSA League Champion Carolina Courage. Fred, The Reality Coach, challenges non-productive views of reality. He is the author of Your MEGAgiNormous Rules: The invisible rules you live by, why they keep you stuck, and what you can do about it. Download Fred’s FREE e-book ”Why DO We KEEP Doing The Same Thing Over And Over Even When We DON’T LIKE the Result We Get?” .