by twinkleboi
Question by jackie: what does it mean if only one person feels a ‘connection’ ?
If a guy meets a girl he thinks they have something special, the sex is magical (only to him) and that she is significant to his life but the girl doesn’t feel he is special or that the sex sucks and is not interested in him
Do two people bot have to feel a connection ? Or is connection from only one person enough for something long lasting ?
Is the guy wasting his time pursuing her if she is only special to him ?
Best answer:
Answer by DeDee
Why would somebody want to be with someone who don’t feel the same way about them? Move on and find someone you deserve.
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iv been in this predicament one time.. i was the one who was connected, he broke it off a few months later and didnt look back.
Very interesting.
In my opinion, it’s only a real “connection”
if both parties feel enlightened by this person’s
company.
Otherwise,
you wouldn’t even know if one person is being genuine or not.
I guess it’s a little jerky,
but oh well.
For the person who isn’t feeling the connection,
I guess they should just let down the guy nicely.
If only one person feels something, then no, you don’t have a connection. It may just be a fling. But it take two people to pursue something. And before it gets to far if you’re not feelings the same way about your partner then you should put a stop to what you guy shave before his heart gets truly broken.
Uh yea…….a relationship is between two people. Sounds like you’re “not that into” him. That’s okay, but don’t waste your time or his. Move on girlfriend!
it only means that the girl is leading him on… in order to find something long lasting and powerful one must find someone he/she is compatible with. and yes, not only is he wasting his time but she as well. its better to start telling each other how they feel about each other, then get hurt and get over it after wards, than to waste each others time on something that just isn’t supposed to be.
may be…