Question by 7-days: Why do people think the first time they have sex is suppose to be special or magical?
It should only be special if you are doing it with your new husband/wife. There is nothing special about giving up your viginity to someone who’s name will not even remember.
“(and just fyi there are some people’s names you just don’t forget)”
Tell that to 67% of the male population.
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Answer by DC Maximus
No magic but it should be considered special. It is the first time you share your body with that person and vice versa.
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cuz its the first time. you only lose ur virginity once so y not make it speacial? you dont want to look back on ur first time and be like yea it was shit, i regret it, i should habe waited n shit.
because it’s a big step in someones life. it ain’t no regular SH!T that happens everyday.
i have no idea why they think it is suppose to be special or magical. when you find that someone special just take your time and see how it turns out.
mayb itz because thats what the want it to be but it hurts for the first time but mayb later on if theres love it could be romantic and magical
I’m a virgin with everything (kissing, boyfriends, sex, etc.) and I just don’t want to give myself away like that to someone that’s not really into me. I kind of would like for everything to be special but not really magical. IDK…
Cuz it used to be that way. Unfortunately society dictated that doing so was no longer special or something worth waiting for. So everybody just gives it away without a care and the emotional connection is no longer there.
It’s all about being “cool” or “accepted by your peers.
My wife said it’s not special or magical because you don’t know what you are doing and if you are a girl it hurts.
So now you have two views on it….
i don’t know about magical, but it should be given some significance and treated properly…i mean, some drunken thing in a bathroom or something just doesn’t seem like the right way to lose it. i suppose it’s a matter of opinion, though
(and just fyi there are some people’s names you just don’t forget)