Question by Dave: Why do women need some sort of sacred emotional bond to have sex?
Complexity much????
Best answer:
Answer by Mudkip
We don’t. But it’s nice.
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Question by Dave: Why do women need some sort of sacred emotional bond to have sex?
Complexity much????
Best answer:
Answer by Mudkip
We don’t. But it’s nice.
Know better? Leave your own answer in the comments!
If women just shagged men and left them, wouldn’t we be accused of being heartless?
Can’t please everyone.
Edit- personally, sex with no strings attached is ok physically but a point arrives where you feel soulless and empty. It’s much better to love the person you’re with.
and then if we have no strings attached sex just for fun, we get called whores.
Can’t win, can we?
Do we? It’s not always the case, though it’s nice.
So, if they wouldn’t risk their reputations they would? That’s the message I’m getting from the answers so far. Poppycock.
If you’re good looking, they over-look the emotions. If you’re average or below, the use it to justify their actions to themselves. It’s the nature of women. Why they simply don’t admit is as big a mystery as to why they have the condition to begin with.
Where are these girls that guys are always complaining about, who always want relationships? Because ever girl I’ve hooked up with in the last year has been the “fool around all night and then never see eachother again” type. Most guys would be THRILLED by this apparently but to be honest I just want a girlfriend!
Conclusion – the stereotype is complete garbage. It’s not true at all.
That’s good and noble. You get less std’s
It doesn’t have to be “sacred” or even all that serious. I guess I don’t see myself as a wild animal that has sex with other wild animals and doesn’t have any feelings for them.
They’re not all like that.
It’s in a woman’s nature to want to feel as though the man she sleeps with will stick around and care for the baby that her fornicating with him produces
I simply beleive its better to think of ot as an act that creates an emotional bond as opposed to thinking of sex as a ‘sport’. You know where you ‘score’.
We don’t, me myself and I would like to have one. Since I’m a virgin.
Go to a bar/pub most of those women aren’t looking for a emotional bond. The ones that do want a bond, looking for a deep connection, something more than just sex. Ya know a commitment, long term, possible husband.
Because if they just go out and have sex for the physical pleasure they get called sl*ts.
It makes sex much greater to have that connection other than just to bang every man out there. Sure some women do it purely for that reason and love it but at the end of the day, women crave that emotional bond and, some men even do too do so please don’t generalize. I think it will come to a point that both genders get tired of having pure sexual relationships and rather be in a relationship where you not only get the sex, but other things that goes along with it- love, respect, friendship, and partnership.
I think you missed a word in your question. It needs to read ‘Why do SOME women need some sort of sacred emotional bond to have sex?’. Not all do. Just like not ALL men want to have sex with every women, some just want one.
We don’t.
Only when they feel like it…if they do and YOU don’t…problems.
Getting the picture?
Mabel B…BULL***T!…many women have nsa sex…and don’t get called whores…and BTW, girls win, like 98% of the time…but it’s not 100% and THAT’S why they continue to complain and believe they need feminism to help them achieve, what only THEY refer to as equality.
You’re welcome for the truth.
Not all women have to have an emotional bond every time they had sex. Personally, I had quite a lot of non-emotional sex when I was young.
But in general, I think women have more of a desire for sex within a stable relationship, probably some instinct to do with having children etc. You want a man who is going to stick around and help raise them. Despite contraception etc, that instinct is still there.
And I have to say that although I was quite happy to have non-emotional sex on occasion, I did find it more exciting if I was romantically involved with the man concerned. maybe men don’t care if they are in love when they have sex.
Probably because love is a turn on for us.
we dont.
If you’re talking about marriage, than yes, I am waiting until I am married to have sex. I don’t see anything wrong with it, and let’s be honest, and say that you’re not going to change a lot of girl’s mind’s, if you want a girl that doesn’t want to wait until marriage then go look for one. Every girl is different.
where has this stupid idea come from?
not getting any are we?
I don’t, so I have no idea why you think this is true. And wtf is a sacred emotional bond, anyway? Are you saying that women don’t have one night stands? cuz lemme tell you, that is straight up stupid.
we don’t need it we just love it. there’s a different feeling in the sex when it’s with someone you love very deeply. when you have sex with someone else it still feels good but it’s not as fulfilling. I’ve had a lot of loveless sex and it felt really really good but in the end i was left feeling incomplete
We simply find a shallow roll in the hay unfulfilling and feel unsatisfied afterwords, so as opposed to that, we would rather satisfy ourselves, please, thank you, hello and good bye!