at or don’t know a lot about.
Steps 4 and 5:
Also, keep your profile current, and don’t have bad grammar.
Step 6:
Once the guy has been smitten by your picture, you have to market your personality. A good way to do this is to exchange a few emails before you go on a date. This way, you can get him to fall for you before he meets you. If you put the right picture on your profile, you’re going to have many responses. Prepare 2 or 3 emails that you slightly modify and send to all of the guys. Do not focus all your attention on one guy until you’ve been on at least 3 dates.
Your first email should be a catchy story about you, who you are and what you do now. Your second email should say something about your family and your past. You can start flirting in your third email. You can never flirt too much with a man. All 3 emails should be no more than 3 or 4 paragraphs.
Emails aren’t only meant to set up the where and when. Use your emails as an opportunity to flirt. You want this guy to fall for you, and you have to show him that you’re interested. You don’t want to be overtly sexual, but you can write things like, “I’m so excited to have dinner with you and have our first kiss!” Or, “You look so good in your picture, I can’t wait to see you in person.”
Step 7:
You need to play the numbers, which means you have to date a lot of men. You should go on at least 2 dates per week if you’re serious about finding the guy for you. You should be able to find a boyfriend if you go on 3 dates per week for 3 months. The more you date, the better chance you have of finding love.
Dating or playing the numbers can be time consuming, but think about how much time you would spend with the man of your dreams.