How to Introduce Tantric Sex to Your Lover
A lot of people are skeptical about tantric sex simply because they don’t know enough about it. Because it’s not the ‘norm’, they tend to shy away or even ridicule it. Is your lover one of these people?
If your partner is not so hot about engaging in Tantric sex with you, don’t give up on the topic just yet! More often than not, you just have not explained the topic to her fully and, more importantly, have not emphasized just how much better lovemaking will be between the two of you. So following are some tips on how you can persuade her to get into ‘sacred sex’ or ‘spiritual sex’ with you.
How to Get Your Partner Excited about Engaging in Tantric Sex
Step 1: Just touch on the topic.
Don’t just jump on the topic of Tantric sex, you’ll probably scare her off that way, or make her think you’ve gone a bit loony, or you’re simply trying to trick her into doing a sex act she won’t like.
Start the conversation by discussing how you want her to enjoy sex more. Start on this because this is something she can easily relate to at the moment. Tell her that in addition to her experiencing more and better physical pleasure, you will also reach a stage in your relationship where your connection will be at a deeper emotional level. Women LOVE this (and you’re not lying when you say it either!) and will definitely be more open to what you have to say next!
Step 2: Start the education process.
Talk about Tanric sex’ goals first and not its ways or methods. Tell her that the practice of sacred sexuality is not just about getting an orgasm but about connecting heart, mind, body and spirit. Doesn’t she want a deeper connection with you?