Question by Chuck Natey: To all the ladies out there, why we gotta play games?
Why is it that when it comes to trying to talk to a girl, its like you have to go through lil games of who calls first and should I text her or let her text me? Why if I call each night the first week i meet you I lose the metaphysical “power” in the relationship? Cant we share the power? Can I just be blunt and say, ” I like you, I think youre cute lets get to know each other?”
I dont know, maybe I’m too blunt or just ready for a serious relationship or something. Is it me?
Best answer:
Answer by coffeebeanzkid
Eh it’s a girl thing.
I personally don’t like to play games with a guy; if I like you, I’ll tell you straight.
It’s one of the many mysteries of the female mind, one I might never come to understand. Ever.
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These little games are done with “girls” not women. Women look for:
goals
loyalty
honesty
maturity
respect
Im a guy, 24 years old and I do want a serious relationship and no, it is not you.
I agree with you it would make like easier for every one. No more guessing games. Does he like me, think he does, maybe he does’nt, I think he does again AAAGHHH. Would save alot of wasted time
yes! that would be refreshing..people spend a great deal of thier time dancing around their feelings due to culture and the unwritten laws of society. Screw the rules! say what you mean! if you said I like you, I think youre cute lets get to know each other?” to me, i would feel relieved.
We just like making things interesting! Don’t call every night! That means you don’t respect that she’s got other things to do! Talking every night is for serious relationships, start out slow and get to know her in small steps. In return, let her know little things about you a little at a time. Leave a little for the imagination! That keeps a girl interested.
I KNOW! It gets so annoying sometimes. I have to agree.
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Geez I wish it’d be like that!
Not all girls prefer it to be that way. You’d be surprised. Honestly, I’m not like that. If I like someone, I’ll get their number and see if they’re interested. I hate playing games because then they all turn out to be head games which leads to mixed signals and moves on to a break up. If only everyone was hoenst to one another.
*sigh*
Anyways, it just depends on which girl you get.