That’s all it’s ever been. You’ve seen the previews. Aint much to it. You’re the one who foolishly believed the actors and their convincing roles, including your own. You’re the one who created so many tell-tale dramas in order to trick yourself into believing you really cared and more importantly that it mattered. HA!. Not so, Jackson Joe. All is for thy observance.
Don’t interfere in the process. {It merely warps the view} Life gets so richly indulgent the moment YOU step out of the way. How do you do that? When something unexpectedly {Maybe, even bizarre}appears out of no where nudging/nodding you in the face, waiting for a direct response; do it. Please don’t add unnecessary analyzing and interpreting. Don’t ask questions; just follow where the rabbit goes. Who cares where she’s taking you? You aint got nothing else to do; follow her. All the way down the (YOUR) rabbit hole. It’s a gas. A real ‘slap you in the ass’ gas! Stop putting so much energy in trying to “fix” a troublesome matter. There’s nothing to fix, mend or put in order. Nothing is out of order, remember? And, when a crisis comes knocking at the door, don’t bar it. Fling it open. Invite the beleaguered guest in. Don’t look for explanations or apologies. Aint none.
Don’t try to pacify yourself by having someone else agree with you or your ideas on the matter, either. “Gotta travel the trail of heartbreak alone”. Apprehension, worry, anxiety lasts BUT A MOMENT, {Grief, less than that} UNLESS YOU TALK YOURSELF INTO THE REASONABLENESS OF YOUR ACTIONS, then, it lasts for years. Don’t appease yourself [extending the saga] by needing an APATHETIC LISTENER to try to soothe your loss, approve of or validate the pain, when there is no