Guys – How To Get That Second Date
Can you boast that you can secure the second date every time but not like this…?
QUESTION: Do you believe in clubs for women?
ANSWER: Only if every other form of persuasion fails!
Whether you want it or not, the second date must be secured just to prove to yourself that it is procurable; so that when someone really special comes along you will be able to confidently ask her out a second time.
It was fairly easy to get the first date because you have something in common. Something in common? you ask. Yes you are both single. But once your worst fears materialised, yes she is taller than you and twice your weight, or perhaps she is like Nancy Astor describes herself:
“My vigour, vitality and cheek repel me. I am the kind of woman I would run away from.”
So naturally you keep looking for more flaws. You hardly say a word yourself, while she seems to be suffering from verbal diarrhea. You know she can see you disapprove. You forget your manners in your haste to be out of her company and … no! you did not get a second date.
Why? She’s not your type. But if almost every woman you meet is not your type, how will you know what your type is? And how do you know you will get a second date? Those of you who are naturally polite, will at least take a polite interest in the woman who does not appeal. But a polite interest is hardly a full dress rehearsal.
Unless you are prepared to take a genuine interest in your prospective-new-platonic-friend-who-could be-very-useful-as-a-practice-run-until-Ms-Right comes-along, when