going against this natural urge. By going against this natural urge, we are going against mother’s nature and god’s plan for us to procreate.
It is our inability to control ourselves and to understand deeply with wisdom what is behind the urge that have led us to escalate our natural urge to that of a compulsion, in another words, sex addiction.
All my 30 years I have tried in vain to resist, avoid, remove, install device to prevent, push away thoughts, feel guilty and dirty about having these thoughts, condemn myself for having these thoughts, using medication to remove the urge, using hypnotherapy to force myself not to think of these thoughts and etc and etc. And how miserably I have failed using these methods!
Come to think of it, it is so true, I can’t go against my true nature, that is, the internal inborn force that wants me to procreate and make sure our human race will continue to exist and thrive . All I need to do is simply to acknowledge these thoughts as they come about, welcome them as you welcome an old friend and simply make a decision not to act on them! The magic of this is that when you face a thoughts squarely in the face and not be afraid of it, avoid it, push it away, resist it and etc, it will lose its strength on you and will start to lose its control on you. Just think out of the box for a moment, when you face a fear or a problem head on, you will realize that the fear or problem will seem less fearful and more manageable. On the other hand, when you avoid, resist, push away, your fear or your problem, you will make it more fearful or that the problem becomes more difficult to handle. It is exactly the same situation here, face it squarely and with wisdom and welcome it warmly like you