philosophies I have studied, teachers I have met, and relationships I have experienced.
IT IS NOT A MATTER OF RIGHT OR WRONG
First of all, I do not believe this is a question of who is right and who is wrong. All these statements are correct and incorrect depending on the path on which an individual finds him or herself in this journey toward self-knowledge or self-actualization.
Initially, we will need to let go of the pride and guilt associated with the concepts of right and wrong, good and sinful. That which is «right» and «good» is that which helps us to proceed on our path toward unity with others and with the Divine. That which is «bad» and «sinful» is that which creates an alienation between ourselves and others, or between ourselves and the Divine within.
Thus, sexual activity for one person may be a harmonizing, unifying factor in his or her physical and psychological life, yet for another, it might be a drain on his or her spiritual energies or focus. One is no better than the other, just as the college student is no better than the elementary school child. Both are good and equally divine in their inner nature.
We need to be honest with ourselves, look deeply into our goals and motives and determine whether at the present time sex and/or erotas are helping us move toward or away from love.
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