good decent person you are) “And, it sure as hell don’t really bother me enough to make me change my thoughts or ways. I’m who I am and that’s just how it is.” That’s all well and good, BUT then, you go and switch on me. You complain about how you are under valued, appreciated and respected. {How you were used, abused, abandoned, cheated on, lied to and taken completely for granted.} I thought you said it didn’t matter.
If you get in rhythm with the unmistakable raw tone of remarkable vibration of the 4th house sign on the cusp, you will not dance to any other tune but your own. You will not have to continue with inner dialogue of conviction. You won’t be so wishy-washy, pissy wissy wantonness. That’s the only problem you have. You say one thing and then do another. Here’s the deal: fall in love with the planet who rules your fourth house. Find his position in the natal chart and see what areas you are a dominant irreplaceable force. In this sign and house you will NEVER get stuck. You will never get comfortable with phoniness. You’ll never get lazy and fall asleep with the key satisfying elements of your seductive life. For example: IF Aquarius rules the 4th house cusp, Uranus is the man in the ,000 Black Pin Striped Suit you’re looking for. You won’t be able to miss him. Everybody knows Quarie and what he’s about!!!
The point is while you are stationed in the fourth house, you have to abide by the rules of the landlord. In this case, he runs the show and the only thing you say is, “Yes, sir!” It’s really immaterial how many times you fall down. Keep moving and tumbling and getting up again.{Over and over and over.} When you use the energy from the planet on the cusp, just think about how fast you