your relationship or leave it. The last thing you want to be feeling is like jumping back into the relationship come hell or high water or dropping to your hands and knees just at the sound of the voice of your ex. If this is how you feel then the bad news is you’re not ready to reconnect.
The beauty of Magic Of Making Up comes from the fact two people have had time to reflect over their differences and when it’s crunch time, the emotions which consume them are basically reciprocal. It’s a great feeling yet many spurned lovers fall over at the last hurdle by making some stupid mistakes.
Here are the two biggest mistakes you can make when reconnecting with your ex:
– You sound desperate on the phone and what this will do is make you more unattractive. It’s like wimpy behaviour and just put yourself in the other person’s shoes…how does this sort of behaviour affect you when it’s being directed towards you. – The second mistake comes with the apology. Well, an apology is fine but how sincere is it. Here’s what most people say in an apology…”I’m so sorry for causing you any grief and am truly sorry but…”
See the problem with the word but. It indicates it’s still about you and you’re not sincere. Eliminate it from your vocabulary during the reconnection stage. If you weren’t totally to blame and your ex contributed in some way to the problems, then let them admit it. Don’t tell them. Throw in that three-letter word and kiss away your chances of experiencing Magic of Making Up.
Indeed, life is short. Don’t let another day go by without taking a chance on happiness. You will never know until you try, so remember to make a