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Tantric Sex vs. ‘Normal’ Sex
The main difference between tantric sex and lovemaking as we commonly view it today is this: reaching an orgasm. With regular sex, you have a goal – to reach your climax and that’s it. However, since men and women have different needs, more often than not, one of them (mostly women) do NOT reach their sexual goal (climaxing) and so there is a lot of pent up sexual frustration in today’s relationships. It is thus no wonder that a lot of relationships have underlying stresses.
Consider these common scenarios.
– He reaches his orgasm but she never does, resulting in sexual frustration for her.
– He’s a very caring guy and wants her to experience sexual pleasure but it takes her a long time to ‘come’ and so it’s building up performance anxiety and sexual frustration for him.
In contrast, Tantric sex is not about reaching an orgasm. It’s about union. The main purpose is to connect with your lover in all aspects: heart, mind, body and soul. Does this mean you don’t reach an orgasm with Tantric lovemaking? Of course not!
On the contrary, Tantric sex practitioners swear that they have never had more body-rocking and mind-blowing orgasms before they tuned into to Tantra sex. So don’t worry; you’re in for A LOT of sexual pleasure with this form of spirituality.
Getting Started with Tantric Sex
The best way to get started with Tantric sex is to start slowly. Begin by viewing your sex partner in a different light. Try to see her as a goddess, a sexual playmate that you hold in the highest regard, and that making love to her is not just about physical pleasure in your groin